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Never Say Never

Aug 11, 2025
Written by Kaleathia Murphy

I always told myself I’d never live in the heart of a city. Downtown living? No, thank you. I don’t even know when or why I made that decision. Maybe it was the chaos the hustle and bustle of city life or the frustration of endlessly circling for a parking spot. Whatever it was, I let a handful of experiences cement the idea in my mind that city life just wasn’t for me.

Then, everything changed when I moved to downtown Los Angeles. It turned out to be nothing like I had imagined. Instead of chaos, I discovered community. The parking issue? Gone, because now I can walk everywhere I need to go. Suddenly, everything was accessible, and the vibrant energy of the city became something I looked forward to rather than avoided. The sounds, the movement, the liveliness they brought me to life in ways I never anticipated.

Living in the city turned out to be a beautiful surprise. It’s invigorating, and it’s taught me to embrace things I once ruled out. So, here I am, recommending something I swore I’d never do: give city life a chance. You might find it’s not what you expected it just might be better.


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