If someone comes to you, be available. I try to set aside time to be there for people because everyone needs a safe place where they can feel seen and heard someone they can turn to without fear of judgment, no matter how bad they think their situation might be. I believe it’s my responsibility to lay down my life for others in this way. It’s the least I can do, especially knowing that I’ve been graced with the ability to encourage others. This is a task I take seriously. No matter what’s happening in my own life, I want the person in front of me to have the stage.

What’s the point of having a gift if you don’t share it? I don’t see myself as the gift, though encouragement is. My job is to empty myself of every good thing God has placed within me so that others can be uplifted. It’s not always easy, but I trust that whatever I pour out will always be replenished. What I eat or drink figuratively speaking comes from a source that never runs dry. You could say I’ll never be thirsty or hungry because I have access to a well of grace and strength that keeps regenerating me.

I’ve learned to embrace the truth that my life isn’t about me. It’s about service, love, and encouragement. When someone chooses to confide in me, to seek comfort or clarity, it’s an honor. In that moment, their needs take center stage. My role is simply to listen, support, and reflect God’s heart for them. If I can offer someone even a fraction of the hope and encouragement I’ve received, then I know I’ve fulfilled my purpose for that moment. So, whenever the opportunity comes, I say: take the stage.