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Aesthetically Pleasing

Dec 8, 2025
Written by Kaleathia Murphy

I don’t want to look the part I want to be who I am. It’s so easy to get caught up in trying to appear perfect, and social media plays a huge role in feeding that illusion. With every curated post and filtered image, people start losing touch with who they truly are. They become puppets, controlled by the world’s standards, brainwashed into chasing perfection. But the truth is, perfection is a mirage. You can’t have it all or do it all, and striving for that is like grasping at the wind. No matter how hard you try, it will always slip through your fingers.

What I see saddens me. I see people acquiring things they don’t truly want, all for the sake of impressing others. These things are often neglected, not cherished, because they were never desired in the first place they were just props for a fleeting moment or a social media post. I’ve fallen into that trap too, trying to make everything picture-perfect: hair in place, house spotless, life neatly tied up in a bow. But the reality is, life doesn’t always look like that. Sometimes it’s messy, unpredictable, and beautifully flawed. And honestly, that’s when you truly see people for who they are.

Life isn’t supposed to be a picture-perfect performance. It’s meant to be lived, with all its ups and downs, chaos and imperfections. We shouldn’t apologize for letting life unfold authentically. It’s okay if things don’t always look or feel perfect because perfection isn’t real. What’s real is the journey, the honesty, and the moments that show us as we are. So let’s stop chasing illusions and start embracing the beauty in life’s imperfection.


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