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Getting Dressed for the Life I’m In

Feb 2, 2026
Written by Kaleathia Murphy

How many times can someone start over? Honestly as many times as they want. I have to remind myself of that, because here I am… starting over again. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve done this, but this one feels different. This time, I chose intention over urgency.

I decided to only bring things into my space that I truly wanted. No filler items. No “this will do for now.” And now when I look around, I feel grateful. Everything I own has a place, a purpose, and a little joy attached to it. There’s nothing I’m planning to replace later because it already feels right.

That mindset spilled over into my wardrobe, which let me be honest was never something I cared much about. But wow. Having clothes I actually love and feel good in? Game changer. I’ve taken the time to put together no-fail outfits, and I’m finding pride in my appearance in a way I never expected. I didn’t know I’d ever care about this and now I kind of love it.

I get excited about getting dressed, even if I’m just staying home or walking to check the mail. There’s something sweet about that like I’m showing up for myself, even in the smallest moments.

Starting over has benefits. I’m learning to embrace the process instead of rushing to fill empty spaces. I don’t want things just to be there. I want them because I truly want them. And for the first time in a long time, that feels like enough ✨


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