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Prioritizing me (without any guilt)

Apr 27, 2026
Written by Kaleathia Murphy

I’m in the middle of rebuilding my makeup and skincare collection, and I didn’t expect it to feel this personal. There’s something special about getting to handpick everything for this new season. It feels intentional. Like I’m curating care.

Now listen… there have been hits. And there have definitely been misses. My poor face has been through it all while I’ve been “figuring it out.” I tried going the super budget-friendly drugstore route, hoping I’d crack the code. But for skincare especially? It hasn’t always been the best experience. I’m not going to lie I got discouraged.

Then I had to pause and tell myself the truth: it’s okay to spend a little more on what goes on your face. It’s okay to build it slowly. I don’t have to buy everything at once. I can purchase one product at a time and create a fail-proof routine over time. That realization took so much pressure off me. I didn’t want to be wasteful. I didn’t want drawers full of regret.

This will take time and that’s fine. I’m worth the time. I’m worth the research. I’m worth the testing. I’m prioritizing me without guilt or apology. And if the journey happens to include a few trial-and-error moments? So be it.

I’m not afraid to do what needs to be done to get this done. And honestly? I’m going to make it fun. Because caring for myself isn’t a chore it’s an investment


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