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A powerful follow through game

Mar 23, 2026
Written by Kaleathia Murphy

I’m currently reading Grit by Angela Duckworth. I’m only on Chapter 4, but it already has me thinking differently. One of the biggest takeaways so far is this: people aren’t just born geniuses. They work at things. They decide what matters to them, and then they do it again and again and again.

What we usually see, though, is the finished product. The polished version. The success story. People don’t want to look at the long hours, the repetition, the frustration, or the quiet discipline it took to get there. The book even mentions something Will Smith once said that there may be people who are smarter or more talented than him, but no one will outwork him. That stopped me for a second.

Because he does make it look easy. But that’s just the result we see. We don’t see the pain, the sweat, or the grit it took to become who he is. We’re looking at the highlight reel, not the behind-the-scenes.

I find myself in a similar place right now. I’m embarking on posting videos on social media, and I’m realizing it takes time. And consistency. And showing up even when it feels awkward or unseen. I won’t lie I didn’t know I had this in me. But something is pulling me toward it. Something keeps nudging me to keep going.

It will take work. And thankfully, work isn’t new to me. I’ve always had follow-through. I’ve always been consistent. Now, I just have to focus that strength in one direction. I believe I can do this. And more than that I’m willing to put in the grit it takes to become who I’m still becoming


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