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I’m a gatekeeper of my thoughts

Mar 30, 2026
Written by Kaleathia Murphy

I choose what I want to hear. I’m learning to focus on what brings me life and if it doesn’t, I dispose of it. No hesitation. I’m in the middle of cleaning up something that once tried to pull me under, and that something is stinking thinking. It’s sneaky like that. It slips in quietly, hoping I won’t notice.

But I’m noticing now. And when I recognize it, I throw it out of my mind before it can settle in. I don’t want it building anything inside of me. I’m realizing more and more that I actually have power here. I get to decide what stays and what goes.

What lives in my mind eventually shows up in my life. It shapes my words, my reactions, my energy my output. So I’ve become watchful. Protective. Intentional. I pay attention to what I watch and what I listen to, because all of it leaves a mark.

Somewhere along the way, I became the gatekeeper of my own mind. And honestly? That feels empowering. Not everything deserves access. Not every thought gets a seat at the table.

I want to grow. I want to be healthy inside and out. That means shutting the door on nonsense and choosing thoughts that help me breathe easier, stand taller, and live lighter. This is how I care for myself now. And it matters


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