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You Are Right Where You’re Supposed to Be

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Sometimes, it’s easy to wonder if we’re really on the right path, especially if our journey has taken unexpected turns. But here’s the truth: you are exactly where you’re supposed to be. Time hasn’t been wasted on you. Every experience, every setback, every triumph—it’s all part of the story that’s brought you here.

By letting go of comparisons, you allow yourself to focus on your unique path. Comparing yourself to others can be tempting, but it often only distracts us from seeing the value in our own journey. Each person’s route is different, and there’s no need to feel embarrassed or discouraged by the one God has chosen for you.

Patience is one of the most powerful tools you can have on your journey. It allows you to make thoughtful, intentional choices instead of being driven by fleeting emotions. Time can be a friend when it helps you think things through, adding wisdom and perspective to your decisions.

When we give ourselves time, we’re able to see beyond the immediate moment and consider the bigger picture. We avoid impulsive choices and instead make sound decisions that align with our values and goals. Time gives us the clarity to discern what’s truly right for us.

You are right where you’re meant to be, on a path that has been carefully guided. Embrace the route that’s led you here. Every experience, every detour has added something valuable to your journey. Trust that this path has purpose, and know that each step forward is built on the strength and wisdom of all you’ve learned.

So, be patient with yourself, trust the process, and let go of any comparisons or doubts. You’re moving forward with exactly what you need to fulfill the purpose that’s uniquely yours.

Growing pains hurts

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Sometimes, it really is goodbye. Certain relationships, no matter how strong they once were, have an expiration date. I always knew this concept existed, but only recently have I truly experienced it. People come into our lives for specific reasons or seasons, each with their own purpose. But when the season ends, we’re left with the bittersweet task of letting go. And here’s the hard part: it’s not limited to friends or acquaintances. It can happen with family members too. Family or not, the loss of a meaningful connection can ache deeply, leaving us in a state of mourning.

We often think of outgrowing someone in terms of friendships, but it can happen in any relationship. Imagine two friends who once bonded over shared interests and a similar outlook on life. But as they grow older, one might start embracing a different lifestyle or mindset, while the other stays where they were. Suddenly, they don’t share the same conversations, values, or even life goals anymore. Sometimes this shift is subtle, drifting apart slowly over time. In other cases, it’s more abrupt—like someone moving away, changing careers, or experiencing a life-changing event. When these shifts happen, the relationship may naturally come to an end.

But just because a relationship ends doesn’t mean it wasn’t valuable. People enter our lives for a reason, often to help us learn, grow, or experience something unique. The hard part is accepting that once that purpose has been fulfilled, it may be time to let them go. The ache of loss lingers because a part of us still wants that connection, that presence. Letting go is difficult, yet honoring the season you shared is a way to find peace. It’s a reminder that each chapter, whether long or short, holds its own purpose and leaves an imprint on who we become.

Love just is…

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I once asked my husband, “How do you love me no matter what?” He makes loving me look so easy. He cares for me graciously, without complaint, always there for me. At times, I find myself wondering, how on earth did I get so blessed to have a husband like him? He is a real-life example of unconditional love, up close and personal, showing me daily what it means to love with selflessness.

But in my reflections, I can’t help but feel a sadness in my heart, realizing that I don’t love like he does. I fall short. I complain when I don’t feel like doing what he asks of me. I snap at the things he says are best for me, and sometimes, I do things grudgingly. But why? What’s wrong with my heart? Why is it so hard for me to love with the same pure, unreserved love that he gives me so freely?

I believe the answer lies in 1 Corinthians 13, which beautifully describes the way love should be—patient, kind, and selfless. Perhaps, this is the best way to live. A love that isn’t conditional or based on how we feel in the moment. It’s a love that chooses to give, even when it’s difficult, and a love that seeks to build up rather than tear down. I’m learning that loving like this is not just a lofty goal, but the key to nurturing a deeper, more meaningful relationship.

Why it’s okay not to be okay…

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It’s okay to not be okay. I’m beginning to understand that this acceptance is a crucial part of the healing process. Admitting that something hurts, feels uncomfortable, or is taking longer than expected is often the first step. This honesty brings the truth about a situation to the surface, allowing healing to truly begin. It’s not about ignoring the pain or moving on too quickly; it’s about acknowledging it, feeling it, and then moving through it to the next phase.

Life is circular, and it brings seasons of peace, disappointment, joy, and grief. Each moment has its place and purpose. If life were filled with only good days, we wouldn’t learn to appreciate them. The difficult moments shape us just as much as the beautiful ones, giving us depth and understanding. I’m learning to embrace the lessons that life offers, seeing each experience as part of a greater design that teaches me more about myself and the world.

Wisdom is the gift that comes from this journey. It is the key to navigating life’s ups and downs with grace and resilience. Learning from each experience—whether joyful or painful—has shown me the priceless value of wisdom. Life, when approached as a teacher, offers an education that no classroom could match. I’m discovering that embracing both the good and the difficult is what leads to genuine growth.

Back Where I Started

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I’ve come to a place of acceptance—a quiet but profound shift in my journey. I’m learning to be okay with my current state of being, to sit with where I am and let go of what once kept me from feeling at peace. Pursuing purpose isn’t always the easy, inspiring path I imagined. Sometimes, it feels humbling and uncertain, and I may even look a little foolish along the way. Yet, I’ve released those insecurities that kept me bound, and I’m learning that purpose is less about feeling “ready” and more about showing up, even when the path feels unclear.

So, I ask myself: should I still keep going? The answer has been a quiet, steady “yes,” even if I can’t say I began this quest with enthusiasm. Purpose seems to reveal itself in whispers rather than loud declarations, in small, consistent steps rather than giant leaps. Each challenge I meet along the way might feel uncomfortable, but it’s grounding me, showing me who I am becoming in the process. I am learning that acceptance doesn’t mean complacency—it means allowing myself to be present, trusting that I am exactly where I need to be right now.

Uncertainty

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It’s been nearly a month since returning to Atlanta, and this past year has felt like a whirlwind. Yet, I never saw myself here—back at home, with no transportation, staying with family. The reality has brought up so many emotions. I’m grappling with a deep sense of uncertainty, unsure if I can trust myself—my decisions, actions, or even my own thoughts.

In this search for inner peace, it feels like I’m chasing something that stays just out of reach. There’s a tight knot in my stomach that seems to grow every day. I feel sadness and a weight I can’t shake, as if happiness has become a stranger. Looking in the mirror, I barely recognize the person staring back at me, and admitting this brings a deep sense of shame.

Writing this is hard; these feelings are raw and real. I feel everything intensely, and it’s painful. Facing the reality of having no home, no car, and the last of my income is humbling. I hesitate to share such vulnerability, but maybe someone else will see this and know they’re not alone in feeling the weight of uncertainty.

Still, despite all of it, I cling to a mustard seed of faith. It may be small, but it’s enough to hold me steady. This season may not look how I thought it would, but I’m holding on to the hope that somehow, I’m being led through it. Even if I can’t see it yet, I trust that there’s purpose in this season of waiting.

Turning Frustration into Action: How Your Words Can Make a Difference

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It’s easy to complain about the state of the world. I’ve found myself frustrated by the things I see around me—social media filled with negativity, people hurting, and a culture that seems more divided than united. But then I realize: if I’m not doing anything to make it better, I’m just adding to the noise. If I don’t like what I see, I can choose to not engage with it or, better yet, post something that brings light into dark spaces.

One way to make a difference is by using my voice to encourage others. I can speak life into someone who’s struggling, offering hope in the middle of their storm. When someone feels unseen or overwhelmed, my words of encouragement might be the one thing that reminds them they’re not alone. A simple message like, “You’re doing better than you think,” can shift someone’s perspective and bring them a step closer to healing.

Another way is to offer insight when people are stuck in unfortunate situations. Maybe they’ve lost a job, ended a relationship, or feel like nothing is going right. Instead of watching them spiral, I can be the voice that says, “This is just a chapter, not the whole story.” Sharing my own journey of overcoming challenges shows that there is hope on the other side, and my testimony might inspire them to keep going.

Lastly, I can create change by being intentional about what I put out into the world. If I’m tired of seeing nonsense online, I can share something meaningful instead—a verse, a kind thought, or an uplifting message. My voice can be a light in spaces that often feel dark, bringing positivity and purpose into conversations that desperately need it. If we want to see change, it starts with what we choose to say and do.

From Struggle to Strength: Why You Shouldn’t Give Up

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Sometimes, it feels like we’re stuck, swimming in circles, making no progress. I’m reminded of a story from The Slight Edge—two frogs trapped in a pail of cream. One frog gave up, exhausted, but the other kept swimming, refusing to quit. At first, it seemed pointless, but in the end, his persistence churned the cream into butter, allowing him to escape. What looked like endless struggle became his breakthrough.

This story has stayed with me, especially in seasons of adversity. I’ve learned that God uses our challenges to shape us. Just like that frog, we may feel like we’re going nowhere, but every bit of effort is producing something greater. Our struggles aren’t wasted; they’re the process through which God molds us into who we’re meant to be.

Trust that God has a purpose for your pain, a reason for your struggle, and a reward for your faithfulness. Don’t give up. You’re making something—something beautiful and lasting, even if you can’t see it yet. Keep going. Trust Him.

A new boldness

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Recently, I found myself with a few old phone cases that were in great condition. So, I decided to go outside my door and ask everyone I saw what kind of phone they had. Many didn’t have the same model, but that didn’t stop us from chatting about other things. I met so many people and even finally found someone who had the same phone. Although she only took one of the four cases, I was thrilled that someone could use it. I couldn’t stop smiling—I was brimming from ear to ear.

This simple experience ignited something inside me. If I can go around offering used phone cases, why not share the gospel? This has given me a new kind of boldness and confidence in what I believe. It made me realize that sharing the good news can be as simple as starting a conversation. How can I be a follower of Jesus Christ and not share what He’s done in my life with others?

As I read the Gospels, I’m having a light bulb moment: I’m a disciple, and I should be making more disciples. Why has this just clicked for me? Isn’t this something new believers understand right away? The Gospels are the good news, and people need to hear it. My love for Christ makes me want to share everything I know and love about Him. He has changed me, and I’m so grateful. The least I can do is help build up His kingdom. I am a living, breathing example of His love and grace, and I’m ready to share that with the world.

You are the purpose

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Have you ever wondered if God could really use you—the real you, not some idealized version? We are all unique, divinely crafted with a specific purpose. The beautiful truth is that you don’t have to search for your purpose; you are purpose. You were intentionally made to embody it, and because of that, you can trust that you will be used in extraordinary ways.

A pastor once said, “The work God does in you is infinitely greater than the works He does through you. That’s why you can trust He will do amazing things through you.” This resonates deeply with me. It’s a reminder that before we can be a vessel for God’s work, we must first understand and accept the purpose He has placed within us.

Consider people like Harriet Tubman, who believed so strongly in her God-given purpose that she risked her life to lead others to freedom. She wasn’t perfect, but she knew she was called to something greater, and she stepped up to fulfill that calling. Another example is Fred Rogers, who shared his purpose by nurturing the hearts and minds of children through his television show. He wasn’t trying to be anyone else; he simply embraced who he was and the purpose God had given him.

At this very moment, someone is waiting for you to step into your purpose. You don’t have to seek it because you are it. Everything in this world was created with a person in mind, and that includes you. It’s not about being perfect or having everything together; it’s about knowing that you are part of something greater. We all share in the responsibility of living out our purpose, and when we do, we can change the world.

So, don’t wait any longer. Embrace who you are, trust in the purpose God has placed within you, and step up. The world needs you just as you are.